That sounds familiar!  The good news is:  you can fix it.  The emotional aspect will take some time, but using familiar pieces of furniture in different ways can help even that along. We live with our furniture so long it’s sometimes hard to imagine that a dining table can now become a display piece, a desk or a project table. 

Changing hardware on a dresser can make it yours.  Get new bed linens, and I strongly recommend a new mattress if you can afford it.  Intimate  pieces can hold “energy” for a long time, making it harder to move on.  Sleep in the MIDDLE of the bed so it doesn’t feel like you’re missing a partner!

Finally—or maybe before you start any of the above projects—do an energetic clearing and a blessing on your house.  Best drums, rings bells, clap and chase away the divorce vibes.  Finish with a blessing using sandalwood, or frankincense and myrrh incense,  walking through each room saying a blessing or prayer of your choice.  It could be a simple as “Bless this space for my highest and best good, for my (my family’s) health and well-being.”  I predict you will feel a dramatic shift!