Challenging Conversations: Dividing your Stuff

by Nancy Wesson Re-claimed and updated from Divorce360 March 2008 My husband and I are trying to conduct our property settlement via mediation and my friends says I’m nuts, but I want to keep this friendly.  At what point should I consider getting an attorney?  Many mediators are attorneys, but when mediating, there is a … Read more

Need Space in Your Relationship?

by Nancy Wesson Re-claimed and updated from Divorce 360, March 2008 A few months ago I started feeling like I needed more “space” in my marriage.  I’ve never really felt crowded before, and my wife and I are fighting so much about this we’re starting to talk about separating.    The other day we realized … Read more

Pictures of My Ex and New Relationships

by Nancy Wesson Re-printed and updated from Divorce 360, April 2008           After my divorce, I’m trying to move forward and seek a new relationship.  I have pictures of my ex around because I want the kids to feel that even though their parents divorced we are still there for them as parents.  I’ve been … Read more

Re-claim Harmony After a Family Rift

Re-claimed and updated from Divorce360, April 2008 How can I use the symbolic aspects of Feng Shui to heal a family rift that has resulted since my divorce? One of the most powerful aspects of Feng Shui is the ability to use intention to shift life. Once you’re clear about a desire, choose a symbol … Read more

Keeping Kids Out of the Middle

by Nancy Wesson Reprinted from divorce360, April 2008 My ex and I have three lovely children.  As a mediator, can you suggest how we keep from putting the children in the middle and making them feel like pawns, as I have seen happen with some of our friends?    Excellent question and one that goes … Read more